Women have to carry children and therefore are hardwired to want a protective, confident, providing man in an intimate relationship. Or we could say that toleration has become the new standard and it’s better to just blend in then stand out and face ridicule.
However, it seems that regardless of what society may seem to tell us, most women still want a confident man who can stand up for what he believes and make decisions.
Often, a younger guy and an older woman would “decide” upfront that their relationship will be casual, and that they should not expect any commitment from each other, because they know that the end of that relationship is inevitable because of the seemingly irreconcilable age difference.
As a result of that increased romantic passion and sexual connection, the two people are actually more likely to develop strong feelings for each other and to feel very attached to each other – something they never planned for, but also something that happens quite often and is so far beyond their control.
This is in large because it is simply impossible for a man and a woman to have a great time with each other, enjoy a special sexual connection over a long period of time and not develop feelings for each other.
Young guys have a stronger sex drive and are naturally hungrier for a woman’s body.
Few things are more flattering to an older woman than being with a younger guy who craves her body and who is more eager to be close to her physically than any older guy would.
A woman who belongs to that category should enjoy your relationship with a young guy and all its benefits and thrills, while recognizing that it will eventually be over due to no one’s fault.
Others consider the above approach to life to be irresponsible or even reckless, and feel much more comfortable planning their life out, including their love life.
They don’t have the confidence approach a woman or the confidence to take a “no”. This is key to having a successful happy dating life and eventually marriage if that is what you want.
I think that women are attracted ton confidence because there is a safety in a confident man.
Should she have cut it as soon as she felt that she was developing feelings for the guy? should she continue seeing the guy, enjoy dating him as much as she can while she can, and not worry about the outcome of the situation too much, without thinking about the future too much?